Needy, Naggy and Controlling are behaviours born out of a wounded part in you. Instead of being an I, you’ve become a we and you’ve immersed yourself into the relationship and you don’t know who you are. You don’t know what you enjoy, what you like, what you’re passionate about, what gets you up and gets you going.
If you’re on the receiving end of someone who is needy, naggy or controlling you may walk on eggshells, dilute yourself down, and not share your inner world with your partner. Feel trapped, chained and restricted.
And if you are needy, naggy or controlling, what needs am I not getting met? Being able to fulfil those needs for yourself, but also communicating clearly. Having very good communication and speaking with respect, assertiveness to be able to say what you feel and what you need and what you want.
We all want to be authentic and real. Living with freedom, creativity, spontaneous choice, love, openness, and respect, for a long-term empowered marriage.
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