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There is no room for other characters in your marriage.  Some examples of a character can be a pleaser, martyr, victim or a bragger.


When you are acting those out or you are being that character, you cannot be honest about what you want in your marriage or what you think in a conversation or what truly brings you joy. It is impossible for the person that you’re with to really know you and love the true authentic you. All these characters avoid loving themselves and you may see yourself in several them or predominantly in one.


Looking for love ‘out there’ results in you allowing someone else to define how you think and feel. You don’t have to face and love yourself. Ask yourself how your life would change if you filled up your own love first and you were able to let go of the characters that you may be playing.


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